The G-spot is part of the female anatomy that is said to produce an orgasm. Named after the German gynaecologist who discovered it, Ernest Grafenberg. The G-spot is the walnut-sized patch of tissue located upward, curved vagina area near the pubic bone. You can find it by inserting two fingers into the vagina about two inches in and making a beckoning movement.
By Brenda Nyachwo
Most people think of the G-spot as an individual organ. However, recent research suggests that it is part of the clitoris. The clitoris is a lot larger than you think it is: the clitoral glans [the part you can see] is about two centimeters long, while the entire internal structure of the clitoris [including the wings and the bulbs] can extend up to five whole inches inside the vagina.
The actual location of the area differs from woman to woman, which is why it may be difficult to find. It is also worth knowing that most women can't get off from penetration alone. Most women find vaginal penetration combined with clitoral stimulation incredibly pleasurable.
Here are a few sex positions that are great for both clitoral stimulation and the elusive G-spot.
1. Squatting cowgirl
In this position, your partner has their feet planted beside you as they ride you. With your feet planted next to you, you have great access to the G-spot. You can also grab her by the hips to help lift her and push her down on your penis.
This also helps take some of the work away from your partner as she rides you. It also gives you full access to the clitoris. You can stimulate her as she rides and plays with her boobs.
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2. Happy baby pose
While she's lying on her back, have her throw her bent legs up into the air. Her legs should be slightly past shoulder-length apart, and for the pose to work, she needs to grip the soles of her feet with her hands. This assists her in regaining her equilibrium.
Happy baby poses not only give you access to the G-spot, but they're also great for engaging her clitoris. With one hand, you can stimulate her clitoris, and with the other, you can hold onto her for support.
3. Flat doggy style.
To improve your chances of giving your partner an orgasm, have her lie flat on her stomach. This gives you even deeper penetration, allowing the head of your penis to curve toward the inside of her vagina.
4. The captain position
If your partner has tight hamstrings, the captain's position is likely a no-go zone. But if their hammiest are loose, then have them lie down on their back and lift their legs straight in the air. From there, grab their ankles with your hands and spread their legs into a V shape.
The captain allows for deep penetration and more direct access to the G spot. Your partner can also easily rub their clitoris using their fingers.
5. Lifted missionary
Missionary is a good position for many women because it takes off the pressure to perform and gives them a chance to focus on their pleasure. The problem? In missionary, there isn't enough space to reach the clitoris.
6. The chair position [Zodiac]
Sit down on a chair, then have your partner straddle you. Which chair you are using will determine where your partner should place their legs and feet, but ideally, they should be behind your butt. This position is less about penetration, or more specifically, the in-and-out motion.
The zodiac works best when you let your partner grind up against you, allowing for natural clitoral stimulation along with G-spot stimulation.
7. Open-legged spoon
This takes on the classic spoon position and gives you that lazy Sunday morning feeling of lazy sex while simultaneously allowing her to lie back and focus on her pleasure.
Here, your partner lies on her back. Lie on your side beneath her. Enter her at a perpendicular angle. She should be able to drape her knees over your side. Have her spread her knees so she has access to her clitoris. This is a fantastic position for both deep penetration and external clitoral stimulation.
8. Sit to stand
Have your partner lie at the edge of the bed with her buttocks as close to the end as possible. Stand next to the bed and enter her. You can either put her legs around your waist or over your shoulder, whichever is more comfortable. In this position, you'll be able to thrust deeply while also stimulating her clitoris.
9. Stand and deliver
Have your partner lie down on the edge of the bed with their legs dangling. While standing in front of your partner, you then lift one of their legs. Placing it on your shoulder. From there, you can begin penetration.
10. Girl on fire
Girl on Fire is a classic cowgirl character. However, instead of leaning forward or remaining upright, have your partner lean back. She can place her hands on both sides of your body for support. This simple twist creates more opportunities for internal stimulation. While she's leaning back, you have two free hands, one of which should be playing with her clitoris.
11. Standing missionary
While standing upright, grab your partner [usually one hand underneath her ass and the other behind her back], and with her legs wrapped around you, start penetrating. This position doesn't lend itself to clitoral stimulation, but if you're able to do this, just do it.
