MEN AND CASANOVA INSTINCT:
Why do some married men look at other women? What interests them that their wives do not have? Is It a natural syndrome? What a big time question.
It seems difficult for men to overlook beautiful and elegant women, and some women capitalize on this to dress and appear for men’s admiration.
Hardly will a man 👞 pass beauty without sign of looking in administration, consciously or unconsciously. It doesn't matter the age of the beautiful 😍. Even if the man's 👞 partner/wife is a symbol of beauty 😍. That is the mystery of attraction 🧲.
"Well, men look at other women because it's an instinct to react at the sight of attractive women and admire them. Society endorses it by displaying women in the media and on TV programs."
Social media, fashion designers and other companies capitalize on this instinct in their adverts. Hardly one sees adverts in TV and billboards without pictures of beautiful 😍 and attractive women 👠.
It seems men 👞 are like cock🍹. They chicken 🐔 in and chicken 🐔 out. Men tend to be slaves to beauty 😍. Some lose their sense of reasoning when a beautiful 😍 and attractive lady appears before them. The Scriptures noted:
"But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband."
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband." 1Cor. 7.
The challenge is that beauty 😍 does not give satisfaction, it rather makes men 👞 look for more. A man 👞 is married to a beautiful 😍 damsel, yet he can't keep his eyes off others.
Solomon calls it meaningless (vanity):
"Meaningless! Meaningless!" says the Teacher. "Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless." What does man gain from all his labor at which he toils under the sun?" Eccl. 1:2,3.
Part of our responsibility as followers of Christ is purity with our relationships. "We are responsible to control ourselves ("possess his vessel") in an honorable way without lust or wrong desire."
"It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God;"
"And that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. 1 Thes. 4:3-6.
Men are, and can never be satisfied with their quest for sexual pleasure, except one encounters God through faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. Even at that, one would need extra/super self-control to be free of immoral inclinations and activities.
It doesn't take "religiosity" to be free of immorality; it will not take going to church; neither will it take being a man 👞 of God; it will not even take baptism in the Holy Spirit and spirituality. The spirit of the prophet is under the prophet.
One laden with the alluring burden of sin can decide to disobey and the Holy Spirit will have no alternative than to stair clear.
It will also not take marriage to a beautiful wife; it will not take a happy family and a good upbringing; it will rather take a sacrificial living and a total commitment and a conscious relationship with God.
The most powerful and well respected, and theologically sound men of God are victims and slave to women's👠 body 👅.
Though we are social beings, but God did not create us to be Casanovas; He did not intend that we be jumping from one woman 👠 to the other, and from one man 👞 to another.
If we do, we will not be anything less than animals. But permit me to say this, packaging could be a reason why men 👞 could be with their wives and still look elsewhere.
I advice women 👠 to dress 👗🥻 up for their husbands. If your husband is interested in scates and blouses, put them on for him. Find out what turns your husband on and do according to his wish with moderation.
Men behave like children sometimes. What they conquer becomes old and less valued. Help sustain their interest by packaging and repackaging.
Do you blame men? Women 👠 are showroom indeed. Showrooms are quite entertaining as you do eye shopping 🛒🛍️ and admire various products in different packages. But eye shopping 🛒🛍️ pose big challenge to thieves.
That could be the same thing with women. They pose great challenges to womanizers. The Bible calls 🤙 them women of Zion -
"The LORD says, “The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes, strutting along with swaying hips, with ornaments jingling on their ankles." Isa. 3:16.
Jesus knew about this instinct in man that He cautioned, "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matt. 5:28.
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