The Power Of Physical Attraction
If he looks ugly to you, don't marry him. One lady told me she doesn't like a guy because he looks ugly to her, I told her to end the relationship!
Marriage is not a walk in the park! You are going to spend at least 45 years with that person! It is crazy staring into the face of an ugly person for the rest of your married life. Some ignorant, religious fanatic will tell you you are carnal, that if it is God's will, you should accept him and endure that gruesome sight all your life! That stupid philosophy is demonic! If a man or lady looks unattractive, unappealing, ugly, and disgusting to you, don't marry them, period!
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God is not a wicked father who will punish you with someone you hate for the rest of your life. If you don't admire the person, it is not God's will, I don't know where people are getting some foolish doctrines from!
Sarah was hot to Abraham, Isaac so admired Rebecca he couldn't keep his hands off her. He was always admiring, touching and fondling! Jacob was blown away by Racheal's beauty! He labored fourteen years to marry her! 7 years meant nothing to him.
Physical admiration precedes sex in marriage. If you don't like how they look, you won't want to touch or have anything to do with them physically. Sex will eventually become a chore: boring, tasteless, dull, and frustrating!
I respect the place of character, I've taught that countless times. Marry a person who practices 1 Cor 13:4-8, and at the same time, marry a person you are crazy about. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is a relative thing. What someone may be crazy about may simply turn you off! What drives others mad may be something you like, just marry someone who is attractive to you, simple!
I personally don't go crazy for 6 pack men. Muscles don't turn my head, and fat and massive flesh just don't get my attention. Some women may whistle when they see men like that, they just don't mean a single thing to me. I love everyone and treat everyone with respect. I compliment good looks but when it comes to marriage, I prefer him tall and slim, someone I can physically look up to and wrap myself around easily. I love hubby's height, chocolate skin, and slim body, I love hugging him a lot.
He wants a portable, average-height woman with some flesh and other attributes. I've got them complete! He loves to look at me, embrace me, carry me, and admire me and he just can't get enough, he keeps chasing me over and over again...
When you are looking for a life partner, God's will is the ultimate. Character follows and physique last. When hubby came, it was his character that made me "summersault" for him, it wasn't his physique first. He told me later my charisma just blew him off. We eventually found out we were God's will for each other, had and still have peace about the relationship, are very much compatible, our temperaments perfectly matched and physically, we both like what we see.
Sex was out of it in courtship. Never have sex in courtship no matter how attracted you are to that person. Sex is strictly for the married.
If you want to keep enjoying sex with your spouse over and over again, marry someone you are attracted to and have some chemistry with, these things are crucial, basic, and elementary.
Adam exclaimed when he saw Eve. You should "exclaim" when you see your wife or else, it is not God's will. God bless you. Cheers!
©Seun Oladele.
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