Dear Brother
There are different types of Ladies.
There are the ones who know how to ask.
They remind one of the prodigal sons. They ask when in need. Matt 7:7 is their motto.
Then there are the ones who remind one of the elder brothers of the prodigal son. Never one day did he make a demand on his father, even when he had needs.
It is for this second category of ladies I want to speak about
If you are in a relationship with a lady who doesn't make demands, who doesn't know how to ask, don't take her nature as an excuse to be stingy.
Yes, I agree that as long as it is a Relationship and not a marriage, she is not your financial responsibility yet. True.
That's a FACT, but the TRUTH is, true love, gives.
"For God so loved the world that he gave..."
You can not tell me you love a lady, every day you are shouting "Getty, I love you" "Getty, you're my world" "Getty, I'm yours" and you can't buy even $100 airtime for Getty simply because it is relationship and not marriage.
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| Dear Brother: Don't Be Stingy With Her |
See, son don't be stingy.
Relationship or Marriage, a stingy Man will be a stingy man, and a giver will be a giver.
I remember a lady I counseled some times back, 2 years relationship, she never asked him for anything because she's not the asking type, and uncle too never got her ANYTHING. 2 YEARS, but she used to get him stuff.
Even if it is data, airtime, ice cream, shoe, or earrings, nobody is saying you should spend your life savings on her, start learning how to give to your Woman now, so you'll be used to it in Marriage.
Don't wait for her to ask first, occasionally get her stuff, no matter how little. Giving doesn't mean you're a Fool.
It is he that is faithful in Little (Relationship) that will be faithful in Much (Marriage)..
(c) Musa Gift.
Like Apostle Pride Sibiya always saya, nyangwe mudzimai wako akaita mari yakawanda sei, yekupihwa nemurume wake ingori nekamwe ka-taste kari kumberi!
Have a wonderful and blessed day. Amen.
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