Reasons Why Men Cheat With Their Housekeepers And Why Housekeepers Agree To It
This why men cheat with their housekeepers and why the housekeepers allow it.
Some ladies would rather push themselves to death than have a housekeeper come into their home. In the possibility that they would carry one, they go to great lengths to find an aged house woman who will not attract their husbands' interest. To comprehend why men sleep with housemaids, you must first comprehend why men cheat:
It has little to do with social standing
Most women believe that she is below her husband's status because she is a housewife and that he will never peek at her. That is why they are so surprised when it occurs. When it comes to fulfilling their desires, men do not discriminate based on their social status.
According to a report, when women cheat, they cheat up, meaning they cheat with men who are wealthier, more powerful, or have a better appearance. When men lie, they cheat from the bottom up. They don't usually go after women who are taller than them. So a housekeeper is just another lady to a husband.
Affordability
They don't have to leave the house to find another woman because the house help is available and familiar. Another explanation why men cheat is that they are easily accessible. That is why having an affair with a man's secretary or coworker is better than having an affair with some random woman.
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It's a game of influence
The man feels he has control over the house girl, so having an affair with her is just him expressing that power.
She could be stunning
A lovely housekeeper will tempt even the most devoted men, and they will need to exercise extreme self-control to avoid making any movements.
It just doesn't feel right
Some men enjoy the excitement of doing extremely dangerous things and out of the ordinary, as they say about the forbidden fruit.
Why do the housekeepers agree to it?
They deserve to keep their work
Making advances against your housekeeper should be considered sexual assault at work. Some of these women are never able to comply, but they need to protect their jobs, so they consider it a minor inconvenience. A thread on a local parenting website centred on why certain housekeepers pack up and leave without notice.
They decided to leave rather than consider the advances of the man of the house. When things get to that point, some of them aren't made with the willpower to quit. Others are unable to leave because they are in desperate need of money. And if they reported the husband to the wife, the wife will still give them away because dealing with a symptom is simpler than dealing with the issue itself.
More so, when some men have affairs with housekeepers, they give them money and other benefits not included in the job contract. They must accept the advances if they want to keep receiving the extra money.
Scores are being settled
It is a well-known fact that certain workers mistreat their housekeepers. When this happens, they look for some way to avenge themselves without having to lose their jobs. When they are confronted, and in some situations, they initiate the approach. It seems like the ideal form of retaliation because the wife will be devastated when she discovers who the other woman is.
Self-confidence
Treat all with dignity, whether they are the president or the janitor. On the other hand, most house helpers are not treated with dignity, not only by their employers but by society as a whole. There is a common misconception that all house helpers are uneducated and only fit for housework. This idea affects how certain houses see themselves. They feel marginalized, and their self-esteem suffers as a result.
With such low self-esteem, being approached by the man of the house aids them in reclaiming their sense of well-being. They are appreciated and heard, which they might not have previously experienced. They are on the same level as, if not better than, the housewife, so why would he choose her over his wife if she was not better?
Do you agree with the above reasons? Why do you think men cheat with their house helps?
I guess, sin is sin and only Jesus Christ can save both the boss and the housemaid or houseboy! We all need Jesus to save us and exercise self-control in order to stop sexual lust and sin otherwise we will all go to hell!
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