I have been privileged to counsel some people struggling with sexual issues. And I'm led to share this with you.


As a man, there are times when you'll feel like having sex no matter how anointed you are...Whether you carry a bowl of fire or an ocean of fire, it's not demonic, you're wired like that.

As a woman, there are times you'll be turned on by some reaction by some guys. It is not abnormal.

The question here is: what do you do when you have such feelings?

Do you know you can actually stand before a naked woman as a man and not be moved or seduced?

Do you know you can handle your body when you start having extreme sexual urge?

Follow me!

Before one will have sex or masturbate, there's always an imagination, a picture of you having sex with a loved one.

You can control your mind. When you have these feelings, distract yourself with things. surround your mind with positive things..listen to what the scripture said. Romans 12:2 "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
You And Your Erection, Feelings (Strictly for Youths)
You And Your Erection, Feelings (Strictly for Youths)

Pray from now till tomorrow to get over sexual addiction without working on your mind, you'll still go back to it.

You're supposed to control your body and not your body-mind controlling you.
You can speak to your body. someone said " that thing no dey hear the word" (sexual organ)

1 Corinthians 9:27 But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.

You see, you can actually bring your body to subjection. When it rises outside God's will, tell the organ to be still and relax..yes sounds funny but that's it. You have power over your body and not your body controlling you.

Sexually, I define a strong man as one who never allows his erection to give him direction. A strong woman is one who never allows her feelings to control her. You look at your sister half-naked and you're not moved..why? Because you can't picture yourself having sex with your sister. no imagination, no picture formed in your mind.

The video recorder of a porn act doesn't have an erection, why? the mind is not the moaning while watching porn that makes you want to have sex, it's when you begin to picture yourself with someone doing the same.

Start speaking to your body today.
Start controlling your mind today.

Finally .. 1 Corinthians 6:18 "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body, but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body."