Tuesday, 14 July 2020

Men: Becoming A Romantic Hubby Even Without Bedding Her

Romance has been missing in Christian marriages lately. One of the major causes of divorce in Christian marriages has been traced to be the absence of romance. Christian spouses are no longer romantic or have forgotten how to be romantic. Honestly, lack of romance makes the marriage boring. If a marriage becomes boring, it could lead to divorce. That won't be our portion in Jesus' name. AMEN.

By Samuel Olagbenjo (Admin: Marital Success Academy)




Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2-year-old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times.


You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument"


Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, it's not her fault. So why shout at her over every small mistake?


As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminists; Do "hide and seek" with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden, or inside the house, even if she is teasing you.


Assist her in the house chores, pound yam, fetch water, don't make her look like your maid. Bath together,. swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty.


Use blindfolds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/ school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner.
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Say “I love you” often to her and prove it as well. Ephesians 5:25


Tell her often that you are happy she agreed to marry you among other men more handsome than you.


Give her a helping hand by cooking the family food together in the kitchen. I Peter 3:7


Listen to her attentively when she talks. Colossians 3:19


Lead her to Prayer often by being the family priest.


Tell your wife how captivated you are with her body. Song of Solomon 4:7


Sit on her lap when she is alone.


Tell her she is the most beautiful and brilliant woman you have ever met. Call your wife 'blessed' and praise her. Prov 31:28-29


Play with the kids as often as possible. Women like this a lot. There is inner joy and contentment when the wife sees her husband playing with their kids


Occasionally, prepare breakfast and serve it to her in bed especially on weekends.


Sit down with her as she watches soap operas on TV.


Learn some things about her and women and discuss these with her.


Give her a serious shoulder, back and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom and living room as often as possible. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5


Write her love letters, send her flowers often and have them delivered to her office.


Call her on phone just to say, “I love you”. Ephesians 5:25


Give her surprise gifts occasionally.


Tell her that the best thing that ever happened to you after your salvation is having her as a wife


Rejoice in your wife all your life. Let her body satisfy you. Be captivated with her. Proverbs 5:18-19


Ask for her opinion often and use her God-given wisdom.


Sit down with her in the living room and place your head on her laps when alone.


If your daughter does anything good, tell her she took after her mother.


Take the first move in bed. Tell her to take charge and be free to tell you how to please her and not to be ashamed. She is your wife. You know it


Write love poems for her and read it to her as she is relaxing


Do not be captivated by other women. Be captivated by your wife alone. Proverbs 5:20


Welcome her home with a kiss and a hug. Song of Solomon 1:2


Ask for forgiveness when you offend her.


Never disagree with her publicly.


Laugh to her jokes even if you've heard them so many times.


Read the Bible to her hearing.


Never disagree with her publicly when she disciplines the children.


Be thankful for your wife and realize the favor you have received from God. Proverbs 18:22


Always allow her to teach you as well as ask questions.


Hang her picture in your office and in the room.


When traveling together in the airplane or bus, allow her to place her head on your chest or lap and sleep off.


Love her mother and other relations.


Never raise your voice on her. Colossians 3:19


Whisper in her ears when she is in the crowd and tell her “I love you”, “you are dazzling”, “you are my QUEEN”.


Ask her what special food she wants you to cook for her.


Write and paste romantic messages often for her in the bedroom.


Again, massage her body; spend time on the back, thigh, tummy, chest, face, buttocks, legs, etc. I Corinthians 7:3-5


Send gifts to her mother often


Give her the needed attention


Never mess with her Kitchen unless she gives you permission.


Tell her you are not a boss but a husband and that she is not a baby-making machine but a mother to your children


Help her put her shoes on whenever she is pregnant


Appreciate her at the end of the month in the company of the children for taking care of your family throughout the month.


All these are part of being romantic...When a woman tells you that you are not romantic. It means you are not doing all these things, its not the romance in the bedroom she is talking about.


You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name



Receive Jesus Christ today and go to church for spiritual fellowship.


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