Proverbs 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Many women come to my inbox with requests of husbands coming home late or not coming back home at all. Yes at times you will be perfect but he has his own weaknesses. But tichitanga gore I just decided to talk about this to women here.
By Anonymous
Some men are becoming wild beasts not because they like it but because thse wife is contentious and angry always.
Before you start pointing fingers at your husband sit down and think. "Am I lovable? Am I not contentious? Am I not always angry?"
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| Contentious Wife, Oh! |
Nothing turns a man of like having a tough day at work and coming back home to a bull frog of a wife who only has his weaknesses to point to and nothing to appreciate about him. That is a complete turn off. He has an ego to protect and daily you are brushing it. Hmmmm.
Some here are not wives but knives. No matter how much the husband tries to love her She pricks his heart daily.
Have time to appreciate his strengths and praise him. Munokundwa naJezebel chaiye aigona kuona kuti Ahab haasi kufara Chii chaitika kwaari.
21:4 And Ahab came into his house heavy and displeased because of the word which Naboth the Jezreelite had spoken to him: for he had said, I will not give thee the inheritance of my fathers. And he laid him down upon his bed, and turned away his face, and would eat no bread.
1 Kings 21:5 But Jezebel his wife came to him, and said unto him, Why is thy spirit so sad, that thou eatest no bread?21:6 And he said unto her, Because I spake unto Naboth the Jezreelite, and said unto him, Give me thy vineyard for money; or else, if it please thee, I will give thee another vineyard for it: and he answered, I will not give thee my vineyard.
1 Kings21:7 And Jezebel his wife said unto him, Dost thou now govern the kingdom of Israel? arise, and eat bread, and let thine heart be merry: I will give thee the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite.
Be there to encourage him when he is down and not to rub salt on his wounds. That is what a lot of you here are doing and you are driving them away. Solomon says it is better to dwell in the wilderness that to live with a contentious angry woman.
One thing that you do not know is once you drive him away he falls into another women's hands and in trying to find solace he tells him why he is down and not happy. Obviously the other woman will try and have strengths where you are weak and she wins his heart.
Benzi remukadzi rinoputsa imba yaro nemaoko. Be a wise woman.
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