Tuesday, 17 December 2019

Relationships Silent Treatment: Its Effects.

Silent Couple
1. IT DEMEANS YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER

It shows your spouse that he/she is not worth speaking to. Hurting him/her in the process.

2. IT SOLVES NO ISSUES

Silent treatment means that issues never get addressed, in fact, they escalate, draining emotions of the both of you.

3. IT MAKES THE HOME COLD

It makes both of you edgy and uncomfortable, killing emotional connection and intimacy.

4. IT ABUSES THE CHILDREN

Children suffer the most when their parents give each other silent treatment, they sense that something is wrong and makes them worry and panic. Children love mom and dad the same.

5. IT MAKES YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE

Giving your spouse/partner silent treatment makes him/her overthink, wondering what is going on and feeling powerless because you are not communicating.

6. IT PUTS YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER IN PRISON

Silent treatment is like putting your spouse/partner through solitary confinement where you cut off access to you. Forced imprisonment is abuse.

7. IT SIGNALS THE DEATH OF YOUR BOND

No relationship can thrive or survive without communication. Silent treatment plants seeds of the end is near, tormenting your spouse/partner.

8. IT PUSHES YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER AWAY

Silent treatment makes your spouse/partner feel locked out, your spouse/partner withdraws because he/she doesn’t know where your heart stands to walk with you in agreement.

9. IT COMES BACK TO HURT YOU

Your spouse might in return decide to also give you silent treatment which will hurt you especially when eventually you want to talk but your spouse has gotten used to silence.

10. IT BREEDS FEAR, LEAVING ROOM FOR ASSUMPTIONS

Silent treatment denies your spouse/partner a space for peace, it makes him/her restless, assuming what happened and what will happen.

11. IT MAKES YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER FEEL REJECTED

Someone who ignores you, rejects you. Silent treatment makes you ignore your spouse/partner, making him feel replaceable and unwanted.

Receive Jesus Christ today and go to church for spiritual fellowship.

Follow Apostle Pride Sibiya (Bishop: Glory Ministries) on Facebook, YouTube, Twitter, Periscope, WhatsApp, Google+, Instagram, Instaclips and all social media.

No comments:

Post a comment

Contact Form

Name

Email *

Message *