The Bible is very clear that death and life are in the power of the tongue. Words can bring life or be disastrous to the same life. Apostle Pride Sibiya gives you wisdom.
We need to check on words that come out of our mouths to our loved ones because once a word goes out it can never be taken back again. Here are some:
1. I will slap you!
2. I will divorce you!
3. "Swine!", "Twerp!"
4. You are hopeless!
5. You are useless!
6. I blame myself for marrying you
7. You can go to hell!
8. You call yourself a man!
9. I hate you!
10. Can't you be like Mr. X or Madam Y?
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12. This marriage will not last!
13. I don't think we are meant for each other!
14. Prostitute!
15. Bitch!
16. If you misbehave, I will divorce you!
17. I don't love you anymore!
18. You are fat for nothing!
19. Your breasts are too small or big for my liking!
20. You are too short!!!
21. Your madness has started again!!!
22. I will be the one to kill you!!!
23. You don't have home training!
24. I was forced to marry you!
25. If you don't give me a male child, I will marry a second wife!
Abuse in its different manifestations is the most destructive tool! It leads to emotional trauma, fear, and discomfort!! It's damaging and traumatizing!
Choose to Speak life. Prov 18:21
1. Speak good things about your spouse e.g "I love you" you are wonderful, you look sweet, your food was good, you are my world, you look charming, etc
2. Confess positive things about your marriage.
3. Express your love to each other verbally every day.
4. Speak about things that you do/do not like
5. Speak to edify.
6. Always pray together! There is power in praying and reading the WORD of GOD together!
GOD IS LOVE AND LOVE IS THE GREATEST FORCE IN MARRIAGE!
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