What Is Cheating In A Relationship or Marriage?

Cheating doesn’t mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. Its like a cancer, it develops slowly but you will surely feel the pain when its fully grown.

The funny thing is most of the times, people try to find what they already have because they don’t just appreciate what they have.

Remember the grass may look green on the other side but what if you could just invest time and energy by watering the one that you have. Wouldn’t the world be a better place to be today?
Can you imagine how strong your relationship would be if you would not waste your energy, resources and time on things that have no future.

Secret, small, hidden relationships are like ticks, they suck all the good things out of your marriage or relationship and makes it unstable. It will take you more effort to repair what you would have damaged and the sad thing is sometimes those wounds might never heal.

Stop sexing and flirting with those people - Yes you know them. Imagine your partner (husband or wife) reading the messages that you receive, would he or she reply with a free heart on your behalf? If the answer is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat or talk that you are having. Stop it before it’s too late.

Some mistakes will cost you for a life time yet you could have just avoided them by just ignoring that chick or dude who now loves you because you have been turned into a better ‘asset’ by your current partner.

Where were they when you were down? Please may you all get rid of all the parasitic relationships that will always be a threat to your relationships’ health. Fight for what is right and never give up on the one you Love. Yes l said health because you have to know and take care of it just like your body. Love it as you love your body, maintain it as you maintain your skin, teeth, hair and nails.

True love means hard-work. Do not apply if you are not prepared to take the risks. Stay out of a relationship if you still want to fool around (but that has its own price) because a relationship calls for great deal of commitment.

Most of the young people think that they will start being faithful when they get married- Word of Advise (You can never teach an old dog new tricks).
That is why they are so many broken families because people think they still have time to adjust. Start practicing being true to yourself when no one is watching you because that’s who you really are.
Besides it’s by nature that what goes around comes around - Do you think the person that you got out of a secret affair will stop just because you are now with her or him?

What Is Cheating In A Relationship or Marriage?
If, peradventure, you, the reader, is not born again and you want to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour, then say this prayer in faith: 

Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.


If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

With this, you are guaranteed all-round rest and peace in Jesus’ Name!

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Written By Pastor Faith Oyedepo
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