Check These 13 Things About Marriage You Should Know If You Want Your Marriage To Be A Success!

While no one plans to have a failed marriage, getting married without being prepared for marriage means your marriage might be doomed to fail even before it began.

1. Avoid being judgemental and resist acting like you are better than your spouse. You should remember we are all human and we all make mistakes.

2. If you desire the respect of your spouse, make sure your spouse comes first.

3. Keeping things inside won’t solve a problem. Your spouse isn’t a mind reader. When you feel hurt or disappointed by your spouse, you should ensure you respectfully tell your spouse what he or she did wrong. Your spouse deserves to know how you feel so ensure you are open about your feelings.

4. If you want your husband to treat you like a queen, learn not to disrespect him.

5. Choose your battles wisely. Some issues are not worth worrying about. Resist the temptation to start unnecessary quarrels with your spouse.

Check These 13 Things About Marriage You Should Know If You Want Your Marriage To Be A Success!

6. Your spouse wants to wear the words “I love you” daily. Never let a day go by without telling your spouse how much you love him or her.

7. Never become too busy for your spouse. Create out time regularly to be alone with your spouse. Your spouse needs your time, affection and attention.

8. Husbands, if you want to be treated like a king, learn to treat your wife like a queen. Give your wife the attention and affection she needs and she will treat you like the king that you are.
9. Your spouse wants to be appreciated even for the little things. Showing gratitude opens the door to the heart of your spouse.

10. Only parents without shame argue or fight with their spouse in the presence of their kids. Be different.

11. Guard your tongue and mind what you say to your spouse. Avoid the temptation to use hurtful words during an argument with your spouse because words once spoken can’t be taken back. Don’t destroy your marriage with your own tongue.

12. A real man is faithful to his wife. Why chase other pretty women outside when you can make your wife admirable and beautiful. A real man takes good care of his wife and chases only her.

13. Money, good looks and all the luxuries of this world won’t give you a successful marriage. Honesty, selfless love and undying commitment are key traits your marriage needs.

Stay blessed...!

Written By Ikemsinachi Alozie