- It’s good to have a fair balance of compatibility and complementary for a good marriage.
- Marriage is about getting, not giving. To build your marriage – GIVE.
- Denial of sex is dangerous. Don’t use fasting and prayer wrongly to defraud one another.
- Couples should both stimulate each other intellectually.
- No marriage ever grows that refuses to feed the future with the manure of the past.
- Spending long time away can destroy homes.
- Good communication is absolutely necessary for successful marriages.
- Lifestyle of a couple determines the financial system they run.
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- Know how to manage your relations.
- If you come from a disconnected home, don’t rush into marriage. Heal first
- Give quantity of time at work, quality of time at home.
- No marriage is perfect. You have to work at it.
- Don’t lose your ‘fire’ (love at the beginning).
- Treat your husband or wife with respect. Stop being self-centred.
- Don’t go to bed angry. Resist the temptation to yell.
- You can tell the type of man a husband is when you see his wife
- Admit your faults promptly. Avoid interruptions.
- Learn to listen & empathise.
- Stop sweeping things under the carpet.
- Marriage is not one-sided. It’s not for babies. Both parties should be happy in the relationship.
- Don’t compare your marriage to any other.