1. A man doesn’t like to be rejected sexually. Men have a sexual drive that when ignored can want him to turn to other means for gratification. Married women should always be there for their husband’s even when they don’t feel like it, unless she is sick or on her period.
This is not out of duty or responsibility, but out of love for the man you married. A man needs a woman to want him.
And ... A man should love his wife as he would "care" for his own body. If a man is not caring for his wife properly and demands that she have sex with him than it can make the woman feel not right about it and it is understandable she would reject or at least try get away from an abusive person. If a husband feels like he is not getting his needs met then he needs to gently and humbly talk with his wife about it, rather than demand sex or get abusive with her.
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The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Don’t deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourself to prayer. Then come together again so Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self control. 1 Corinthians 7:4-5
2. A man does not want to be dominated by a woman. When a wife takes the helm and controls situations and state of affairs in the home and marriage, a husband becomes less likely to want to get involved or do anything at all. This is why some husband’s just go ahead and let their wife’s tell them what to do, it is much easier to let her take control than to constantly argue, fuss, and fight. But this is not right.
2. A man does not want to be dominated by a woman. When a wife takes the helm and controls situations and state of affairs in the home and marriage, a husband becomes less likely to want to get involved or do anything at all. This is why some husband’s just go ahead and let their wife’s tell them what to do, it is much easier to let her take control than to constantly argue, fuss, and fight. But this is not right.
Why do you think men complain about taking out the garbage? Think about it for a minute. It is demeaning, as if that is all he can do. But a man’s job is to be the spiritual leader, provider, protector, and authority of the home. We shouldn’t be in such a hurry to undermine our husband’s position. Give it back to your husband where it belongs. He needs to take the lead in the home.
A wise and Christ honoring husband will not take advantage of his wife. And a wise Christ honoring wife will not try and undermine her husband’s position.
If you do not honor and love Jesus Christ than I suppose this scripture does not apply to you.
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the Church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 4:22-24
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