These are some of the things your man wants in the house.
Excitement - more than 90 % of men want their wives to be excited about Sex / kufarira bonde or kufadzwa nebonde. No husband likes to beg, cajole or force his wife (hapana murume anofarira kukumbira or kupemha or kumanikidzira bonde kumukadzi waakaroora) .Majority of men hate women who do not smile or are not happy during sex. Be involved in the bedroom (usanyare, usaseme kana kutya murume wako.) Most men appreciate women that are involved in sexual activities that is during foreplay, intercourse, and the afterglow kwete kungoti rapata, tuzu iye murume achiri kuda bonde.
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Men also appreciate women that allow sex to take place in another venue apart from their bedroom eg paSofa, paFloor, bathing room kana kuendawo nemurume wako kuHotel chaiko wonosoterwa ikoko.
Do not fight your husband, do not argue or struggle with him, if you are not prepared for bonde / sex tell him politely in the spirit of Love and Wisdom and do it with wisdom (kwete kungonyima murume nekuti mumba hamuna mari kana chekudya or wakaneta.)
Do not become a Commander by ordering your husband around . Avoid negative statements , complaints, murmuring or bad remarks. Avoid the attitude of " Let him do what ever he wants to do and let me sleep."
Avoid a date life style and odour - Upenyu hwekunhuhwa. Geza mazino mhani iwe ,geza hapwa idzo, kwesha kwese kunoinda tsvina nekunobuda bad smell usati waenda pabonde. make sure your mouth, body, armpits, and the vagina smell well.
For Marriage and Counseling , for Couples Seminars, Ruwadzano Seminars, Youth Seminars, Prayer requests etc call Rev C V. Machakaire on 0775 170 76 1, E-mail: cvmachakaire@yahoo.co.uk, App: 0775 170 761.
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