The following conversation took place between a grandmother and her granddaughter.
Grandma: Akosua, where are you going?
Akosua: Grandma, I am going to Church.
Grandma: Really? Please come and sit down, and let's talk for a minute before you go. I think we still have ample time before the church service begins? Don't we?
Akosua: About an hour, yes.
Grandma: The way you are dressed, in fact, you look very sexy.
Akosua: (Smiling) Thank you very much grandma.
Grandma: Hmmm, Akosua, I can see you love that compliment. Please tell me, do you need someone to have sex with you?
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Grandma: If you do not need someone to have sex with you, then, why do you dress 'sexy'?
Akosua: There's nothing to worry about, Grannie. I just want to ...
Grandma: (cuts in) ... Dressed to kill, as usual! Akosua, a Godly girl should never feel proud or swollen-headed when someone tells her that she looks 'sexy'. In fact it's a very bad and insulting compliment. The intention of dressing sexy is to arouse men, That's all. That's the reason why sex workers dress this way. They dress so because they want someone to have sex with them and pay them. They do everything possible to 'look sexy' and attractive - not to just one person, but to the entire men in town! They expose, they wear things that will reveal all their endowed curves - just to 'look sexy' and attractive to men, for money. Please, Akosua, are you also trying to look that way so that you will be attractive to men for sex?
(Akosua looked down, and was speechless.)
Grandma: You are young, fit and attractive. Although you are a Christian, you always look so worldly. When you dress like this to go to church, the probability of bringing even the pastor down is very high. But remember that 'woe betide the one by whom a righteous man is made to fall...' I know you can remember this scripture very well. Well, my beloved grand-daughter, I am done. You can now go.
Akosua: Thank you very much, Grandma. I have never looked at it like this before. From today onwards, I promise never to dress again 'to look sexy'. I will rather dress to look beautiful and glorify GOD with my dressing. Thank you very much, Grandma.
Grandma: You are welcome, my dear. (Seeing that Akosua started going towards her room, she said) But, are you not going to church anymore?
Akosua: I will go Grannie. I just want to change my dress first.
Grandma: May God bless you for doing that."
Please share this story with your friends. Most 'sexy-looking girls' do not have someone to tell them the truth.
Sisters, don't just read it, please react to it - just as Akosua did because we are addressed the way we dress. Let us dress right to reflect the Godliness in our lives!
Brothers, don't delete but forward to your sisters and friends.
