Thursday, 20 July 2017

MUST READ: Husbands' Anger Push Buttons

Everyone has push buttons and when you press them anger erupts! Today I look at your husband's anger push buttons.

1.The CORRECTION button: As a wife ,know that most men don’t like to be corrected because they believe that they know everything and it is their right to teach their wife and all others. Try not to sound like a teacher when correcting him.Apply wisdom and humility to make him yield to your advice otherwise ANOITA HASHA.

2. The EMBARRASSMENT Button :He may make mistakes in the public but he does not want his wife to rebuke him openly. Likewise he detests it when his wife disobeys him publicly. Even If your husband is a weakling at home;he wants to be seen as a man in-charge when in the public glare otherwise ANOITA HASHA!
Worried man
3.The COMPARISON Button: He doesnt like being compared to your father.Certain women may be fortunate to be raised by a godly and goodly father who is a portrait of who a real father should be.Wives in this category often expect too much from their husbands thereby comparing him with their fathers.Such comparison normally gets the man angry and bring out the worst in him.Please,note that we have different upbringings;so don’t expect your husband to behave exactly like your father.Celebrate his uniqueness and overlook his weakness. STOP comparing him with other people's husbands ANOITA HASHA!!

4.The "TREAT HIM LIKE A CHILD" Button: Don’t allow motherly role get into your head to the extent that you will not be able to differentiate between your husband and the children.He is not your first born.yes there are times when he acts like a child in fact most times!Give him his due respect as a husband otherwise ANOITA HASHA!

5.The "SILENT TREATMENT" button. It is a grave error for you to allow avoidance and silent treatment for your husband. This will destroy affection and friendliness in your marriage.If there is any problem;talk about it and address it quickly otherwise ANOITA HASHA!

6.The COMMAND SEX button. One sided sex can be frustrating. He hates it when its only you who determines where,when and how intimacy happens.Men generally love sex and your husband is one of them.So when you deny him sex,you make him feel bad, unwanted and full of anger. His anger can bring tension into the house and he can also transfer his aggression on the children as well. Stop denying him sex and don’t use sex as a weapon of punishment to him otherwise ANOITA HASHA!

By Simba Woloza

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