Monday, 5 June 2017

COUPLES MUST READ: Hold On To Your Marriage - Stage 5 Is Coming!

Marriage has got different stages ... So couples should be aware of all these stages as they affect them the most:

1. Honey moon stage: This is the first stage of marriage. Rudo ruchipisa mumba muchiyemerana muchibika mese mukitchen and the husband is focused more on sex. Everything seems good and rosy. At this stage you wonder why coupes ever fight.

APOSTLE PRIDE SIBIYA: THIS IS A GREAT START, TRY BY ALL MEANS TO KEEP THIS FIRE THROUGH ALL THE STAGES!

2. Realisation stage: This stage manje ndopaye pamunotanga kudzidzana wochitanga kuona kuti yohwe inga Charisi haaflashy toilet, yohwe inga baba ava havagezi...mai mai mai murume uyu zvaanoda madhirezi...yuwi ko baba ava zvavakaomera.(am just giving examples). Iyewo oti yuwi mai ava zvavasingagoni kubika...yuwi mkadzi uyu zvaasingagezi plus anotaurisa.

APOSTLE SIBIYA: EVEN BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS OF YOUR SPOUSE. IN MARRIAGE KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL IMPERFECT BUT HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHANGE.
The mature stage of marriage is the greatest.
3. Conflict stage: This stage yakaoma ... Ndopanorambana vazhinji coz after realisation stage conflicts will start to occur mudzimba... Maakugarorovana, kutukana kumoodhurirana etc This stage yakaoma if u are not careful imba unosiya coz its a painful stage as it will involve umwe kutoita mapermanent girlfriends or boyfriends as pain killers.

APOSTLE SIBIYA: CONFLICT IS INEVITABLE WHEREVER THERE ARE TWO PEOPLE. THE MARRIAGE WITHOUT CONFLICT HAS ONE OR BOTH DEAD SPOUSES. ULTIMATELY IT'S NOT ABOUT NOT HAVING A CONFLICT, RATHER, HOW WE DEAL WITH IT!

4. Conflict resolution stage: This stage muchaitwa counselingka nehama, church members & frenz... Iwewe mkadzi or murume you will also be learning from other people's marriages kuti ahh wangu murume/mukadzi zvaari nane wamai/baba nhingi is worse.

APOSTLE SIBIYA: PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PASTORS AND MATURE PEOPLE TO GET HELP.

5. Final stage is the maturity stage: Ndopaye pamunozoona kuti we are wasting time lets love & cherish each other... motoona kuti ahhh better ndinyarare kuti mumba mufaye. Hubby otiwo better ndikasike kuuya kumba mai ava vasatsamwe... mototanga kuita adjust yo imperfections...then you will live happily thru the blessings from God mukasimba pakunamata mese pasawana anoshandiswa naSatan.

APOSTLE SIBIYA: AS LONG AS YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT PLAGUED BY CONSISTANT INFIDELITY AND VIOLENCE STAY ON, THE STAGE OF MATURITY AND HAPPINESS IS COMING. Also know maturity is not achieved by age alone but by how fast you are willing to accept one another!

Always remember marriage was given us by God and only Him can help us have perfect marriages. Start this journey by taking jesus Christ into your heart right now and attend a Bible-believing Church!

Muripapi ?

Adopted By Apostle Pride Sibiya

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